I remember the first time a
calling started to feel difficult for me.
It was my first year at BYU. I and another boy in my ward were called to
be leaders in a family home evening group of other college students. We pretty much were to make sure family
home evenings happened for our group and to coordinate time and place to meet.
I tended to be the driving
force behind our group meeting. I don’t know why that was. Maybe my partner
didn’t have regular family home evenings growing up and so didn’t feel strongly
about it. Or maybe he had a heavy
load of coursework and it weighed on him such that he didn’t feel as urgently
about having family home evening.
Whatever the reason, I was
usually the one calling him to plan what we were going to do. Once we figured that out, I was the one
calling members of our group to let them know meeting details. (This was before cell phones started to
become more ubiquitous, and before texting capability, so there was no sending
a group text.)
I remember late one Monday
afternoon sitting on my bed, eying the phone with distaste, knowing that I was
going to have to push together another family home evening when I wanted
nothing more than to relax and be the one pulled for a change.
I knew I needed some
motivation, so in desperation I reached for my scriptures and flipped it open
to some random page and started reading.
Here is the verse that caught my eye:
And
now my beloved brethren, I have said these things unto you that I might awaken
you to a sense of your duty to God, that ye may walk blameless before him, that
ye may walk after the holy order of God, after which ye have been received.
(Alma 7:22)
That verse gave me a jolt,
like an awakening. It seemed to speak to my situation. What was my duty to
God? It was to make sure FHE
happened.
“that ye may walk blameless
before him” – I envisioned Judgment day and how I would feel happy if I could
look back and say I had done my duty.
And after all, it looking at it from a distant perspective, my duty
didn’t seem so hard after all. A
few phone calls.
That gave me the motivation to
go pick up that phone and start.
I look back at that now and
I shake my head at how silly I was.
But at the time I was young and it was a big deal. I had a lot of growing to do.
Here are some other
scriptures I like that are closely related—good motivators for callings…
Holiness and foreordination
Who
hath saved us, and called us with an holy
calling, not according to our works, but according to his own purpose and
grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the world began, (1 Timothy
1:9)
This scripture is probably
talking about “holy calling” in the sense of being brought into the church, but
I think it also applies to church callings too. They come by revelation. If you
are like me, you probably have raised your eyebrows at some callings you’ve
been given and thought, I have no idea
why I have been asked to do this; there are people who could do a better job
than me at this. That’s when
you know Heavenly Father has His own purposes, and the calling didn’t come
because of anything we’ve done to deserve it. There’s foreordination in it, and
it’s part of the Lord’s plan.
Case in point: I have no
idea how my being in charge of that FHE group at BYU fit in the Lord’s plan or
what its purpose was, but I have faith that it fulfilled its purpose. It was the first time I had to push
through an aspect of my calling that was hard.
Some of my callings I’ve
said to myself, This has to be
revelation, because I would not have chosen this. This is not the kind of thing
I like. There was one calling
that I was mad about receiving, but I accepted anyway, and it turned out to be
a big blessing. I look back at it
now and I see it as evidence that Heavenly Father knew me better than I knew
myself. He knew I would love it, and He knew it would stretch me where I needed
stretching.
Example: Stripling warriors
And
they were all young men, and they were exceedingly valiant for courage, and
also for strength and activity; but behold, this was not all—they were men who
were true at all times in whatsoever thing they were entrusted. (Alma 53:20)
This is about the stripling
warriors, but I want that to be about me in my callings. I want to be
valiant for courage, be strong, be active, and be true at all times to
whatsoever thing has been entrusted to me.
Learning, action, diligence
99 Wherefore,
now let every man learn his duty, and to act in the office in which he is
appointed, in all diligence.
100 He
that is slothful shall not be counted worthy to stand, and he that learns not
his duty and shows himself not approved shall not be counted worthy to stand.
Even so. Amen. (D&C 107:99-100)
Two principles there: 1) learning our
duty and 2) acting with diligence. If we don’t know what we’re supposed to do,
we need to get training and get help until we know what we need to do. Once we know, we need to do it. Consistently.
Sometimes diligence is our big
test. Maybe we can pull off the
big production once, but it is the tasks that must be done over and over and
over again that can become a problem for us because we get so tired of
them. Or maybe we’re more into the
calling when it is new and strange, but when it is old we might get a little
slack at it. When my callings feel
old, I know I’m being trained to be diligent.
All
are Needed to Keep the System Perfect
109 Therefore,
let every man stand in his own office, and labor in his own calling; and let
not the head say unto the feet it hath no need of the feet; for without the
feet how shall the body be able to stand?
110 Also
the body hath need of every member, that all may be edified together, that the
system may be kept perfect. (D&C 84:109-110)
To me this one says there are no
unimportant callings and each one is needed. The image of the head dismissing the need for the feet
teaches by negative analogy that leaders should not dismiss as unimportant the
members who have the less-visible callings, because if those less-visible
callings were eliminated, there would be hurt somewhere. (“without the feet how shall the body
be able to stand?”)
By the way, I’ve noticed so many church
leaders that are so good at thanking people who put together an event. I used
to wonder why they took time for all those thank yous, but now I know that they
understand this principle that every person’s contribution is important.
In the abstract, callings are a
grouping of tasks that have to be done, but from the spiritual perspective,
they are opportunities to practice charity and service for others. They exist because there is work to be
done to build the kingdom of God and to keep it running smoothly. If we don’t think a particular calling
is needed, we only need to think about what would be lost if it didn’t exist.
I also like that v110 says that with
every member, all may be edified and the system is kept perfect. We all keep the system perfect! We all
edify each other!
Keep
it up, Soldier!
Thou
therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. (2 Timothy 2:3)
Sometimes
callings are just hard, and we have
to endure it. Good soldiers have to endure nasty conditions, and good Saints
will too on occasion.
What
scriptures have helped you keep on with your callings?